tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4833226442314585449.post5558474049287077498..comments2023-10-26T06:42:26.400-04:00Comments on Mohawks and Dirty Diapers - A mother's daily struggle to stay cool: Honey Start Cracking Up Some Barry White PleaseCool Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05473351799463461735noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4833226442314585449.post-73886410702603941142007-10-09T23:33:00.000-04:002007-10-09T23:33:00.000-04:00Great! What I get from both of you is ZERO resiste...Great! What I get from both of you is ZERO resistence when I was hoping for just a little bit!<BR/>Oh well...I guess I will keep you posted on my sex adventures and baby-making news...I just have to get my hubby really drunk!!<BR/>I know he's dying for a little girl, but he's the very rational-let's not rush into it-type of guy, while I'm a big carpe diem type of girl. Huh..I guess opposite attracts.Cool Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05473351799463461735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4833226442314585449.post-43727199362124296282007-10-09T14:20:00.000-04:002007-10-09T14:20:00.000-04:00Ok, so I am sitting here shaking my head and laugh...Ok, so I am sitting here shaking my head and laughing. Not because I think you're crazy, or because I don't think you should do it... but because I HAVE BEEN THERE- and I obviously DID it. <BR/> <BR/>When Adam was 10 months old, I HAD to<BR/>have another baby. It was that crazy feeling you were just explaining. So, we tried...and one month later --boom-- Matthew was conceived. <BR/><BR/>Here's my advice:<BR/><BR/>1) Don't steal another person's child and don't kick the pregnant ladies on the street- not so nice. <BR/><BR/>2) Sex during second pregnancy seems to suck...and doesn't happen nearly enough (for the man). BUT sex after second baby...well... let's just say for some reason it's SO much better. <BR/><BR/>3) Remember that the second pregnancy means that you ARE going to show sooner and your boobs WILL be larger than the first time. <BR/><BR/>4) Is having two children under the age of two hard? YES. The hardest thing I have EVER done. But it is POSSIBLE to do. <BR/><BR/>& the money side of it isn't that bad! I am at home, my husband works AND we are both in school (well, A is done in two weeks- WOO), and we haven't had to skimp on anything. <BR/><BR/>5) Is it worth it? YES! I wouldn't take it back for anything. My boys are the happiest part of my life.<BR/><BR/>6) Do the husbands remember what to do after 19-24 months? NO! What in the hell is that about? Or is it a ploy to make you do everything??? hmmm.... So, don't let them get away with it. <BR/><BR/><BR/>Ummm that's all :) <BR/><BR/>GO FOR IT! It really is worth it :)Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12002483063520010362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4833226442314585449.post-64394174746854098302007-10-09T11:06:00.000-04:002007-10-09T11:06:00.000-04:00Oh my god! this must be some kind of general women...Oh my god! this must be some kind of general womenly phase, cos Im right there myself! <BR/>The first 6 months after Seba was born I swore I was never EVER going to have another child. thing were kinda rough for me at the beginning. Now Seba is almost 16 months and Im doing the same thing... looking at babies and wondering how nice it'd be to have another one. I told my husband and he said: well, this means that we will have to start having LOTS more sex then...hahaha like you said, sex hasn't been abundant these past year.. mostly because we are so tired by the en of the day that we look at each other and just fall asleep kissng...hahah <BR/>So then I started with all the rational stuff... like, if we have them close to each other then it'd be sooner for me to go to back to work as oppossed to having them 4yrs apart (this taking in account that nannies and things of the kind are so incredibly expensive here, that it is cheaper for me to just stay home than go to work and earn money which would go all away paying for said nanny).<BR/>Funnily enough, either my husband really wants to have LOTS LOTS more sex, or lots more babies... but he agreed, no problem.<BR/>Now Im scared. I find no resistance to any of my plans...hahahahMarianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17070699825896478765noreply@blogger.com